邁向成功系列之56 人性真相:恨你有笑你無，嫌你窮怕你富

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瞭解人性的真相，將驚出一身冷汗

恨你有，笑你無，嫌你窮，怕你富



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[size=1.2]in this world
[size=1.2]There are only two things that cannot be looked at directly
[size=1.2]The first is the sun
[size=1.2]Because it's too dazzling
[size=1.2]The second is human nature
[size=1.2]Because it's too unpredictable
[size=1.2]Today we are going to do a dissection
[size=1.2]How complex is human nature?
[size=1.2]Said heaven is beautiful
[size=1.2]Just no one goes
[size=1.2]Saying money is a sin
[size=1.2]Everyone is trying their best to catch it
[size=1.2]Saying that beautiful women are a disaster
[size=1.2]Want them all
[size=1.2]It’s said that it’s cold at high places
[size=1.2]Everyone is crawling, this is human nature
[size=1.2]What is human nature
[size=1.2]I hate that you laugh but you don’t
[size=1.2]I think you're poor and I'm afraid you're rich
[size=1.2]As a lawyer, I hope you will be accused
[size=1.2]Doctors hope you get sick
[size=1.2]The mechanic hopes your car breaks down
[size=1.2]only thieves
[size=1.2]They want you to be prosperous and wealthy forever
[size=1.2]Meeting people for the first time
[size=1.2]Start looking at the other person’s identity and worth
[size=1.2]Then choose whether to kneel in front of the other party
[size=1.2]Or let the other party kneel for you?
[size=1.2]when you fail
[size=1.2]There is always a group of people who care about you
[size=1.2]ask you what happened
[size=1.2]And then leave with satisfaction
[size=1.2]Most people will wish you well
[size=1.2]But the prerequisite is that I don’t want you to live a better life than him.
[size=1.2]As long as it doesn't harm your interests
[size=1.2]You don’t need to refute what others say
[size=1.2]As long as it's not a personal attack on you
[size=1.2]You don’t need to care about other people’s opinions
[size=1.2]The more you are afraid
[size=1.2]The more people bully you
[size=1.2]You are not afraid of anything anymore
[size=1.2]On the contrary, no one dares to bully you
[size=1.2]You are so nice
[size=1.2]Everyone is here to take advantage of you
[size=1.2]Be more aggressive
[size=1.2]On the contrary, I might come to please you
[size=1.2]Since ancient times, true love cannot be retained
[size=1.2]Only tricks can win people's hearts
[size=1.2]Slowly you will find
[size=1.2]A good heart can never be as good as a good mouth
[size=1.2]The relationship between people is like knitting a sweater
[size=1.2]Build it one stitch at a time
[size=1.2]careful and long
[size=1.2]When removing, just pull it gently
[size=1.2]Never complain casually
[size=1.2]Because some people will comfort you on the surface
[size=1.2]But behind the scenes, your pain will be used as a basis for discussion
[size=1.2]Your friends may wish you well
[size=1.2]But the prerequisite is
[size=1.2]I don’t want you to have a better life than him
[size=1.2]Of course one's own failure
[size=1.2]It’s scary, but my friend’s success is even more heart-wrenching.
[size=1.2]Beggars don't envy millionaires
[size=1.2]But he will definitely be jealous of the beggar who earns more
[size=1.2]Man allows a stranger to get rich
[size=1.2]But he can't tolerate the promotion of someone around him
[size=1.2]The greatest pain in life
[size=1.2]It’s just watching the people around you become prosperous.
[size=1.2]We would rather see outsiders succeed
[size=1.2]I just can’t stand the success of people around me
[size=1.2]People who are far away from you become prosperous
[size=1.2]We are envious
[size=1.2]People close to you are prosperous
[size=1.2]We hate
[size=1.2]A bit stronger than myself
[size=1.2]we worship
[size=1.2]A little stronger than myself
[size=1.2]we are jealous
[size=1.2]People always praise the smell of meat when eating it
[size=1.2]When washing dishes, scolding them for being dirty
[size=1.2]When people are hungry, they will choose food they don’t like
[size=1.2]When people are lonely, they will choose someone they don’t love
[size=1.2]The so-called hunger does not choose food
[size=1.2]No choice of clothes in the cold
[size=1.2]panicking
[size=1.2]Poor people don’t choose wives
[size=1.2]That's the truth
[size=1.2]Why have beauties been so miserable since ancient times?
[size=1.2]Because no one cares how long ugly people live
[size=1.2]If you give him one dollar a day
[size=1.2]As long as I don't give it for a day
[size=1.2]He will hate you
[size=1.2]If you give him a slap every day
[size=1.2]As long as you don't fight for a day
[size=1.2]He will kneel down and thank you
[size=1.2]Kind people always feel like rejecting others
[size=1.2]As if I had done something wrong
[size=1.2]For some people, you give them 7 points
[size=1.2]Instead, he feels that you still owe him three points.
[size=1.2]Couples can't get divorced
[size=1.2]Can't see the true nature
[size=1.2]Sisters don’t touch money
[size=1.2]Can't see the face
[size=1.2]Parents are not at the hospital bed
[size=1.2]Can't see filial piety
[size=1.2]Friends don’t touch benefits
[size=1.2]Can't see humanity
[size=1.2]seemingly strong parents
[size=1.2]There is a high probability of raising cowardly and unconfident children.
[size=1.2]On the contrary, those parents who are peaceful and quiet
[size=1.2]Often can educate children with strong hearts
[size=1.2]Introverted and thoughtful people tend to be more affectionate
[size=1.2]Once you decide, stick to it
[size=1.2]outgoing person
[size=1.2]Although it’s easy to get along with people
[size=1.2]But the heart is often cold
[size=1.2]Often the first to retreat at critical moments
[size=1.2]The worse a person is to his family, the more
[size=1.2]It's about saving face outside.
[size=1.2]The more I like to please people outside,
[size=1.2]The worse it is for the family
[size=1.2]In fact, this kind of person not only has low self-esteem
[size=1.2]And cowardly
[size=1.2]Otherwise, I wouldn’t come home every time
[size=1.2]Just get angry in the nest
[size=1.2]A psychopath is extremely easy to identify
[size=1.2]But a group of mentally ill people are hard to detect
[size=1.2]And the first person to discover and point it out
[size=1.2]usually considered mentally ill
[size=1.2]Most people don’t recognize their own problems
[size=1.2]But he has a preaching mouth
[size=1.2]people despise each other
[size=1.2]flatter each other
[size=1.2]People each hope that they are higher than others
[size=1.2]And each of them crouched in front of others
[size=1.2]Modern people live under illusion
[size=1.2]He thinks he knows what he wants
[size=1.2]In fact
[size=1.2]What he wants is what others want him to want
[size=1.2]Most people don't really want freedom
[size=1.2]Because freedom includes responsibility
[size=1.2]And most people are afraid of responsibility
[size=1.2]People can defend themselves against attacks from others
[size=1.2]But I can’t do anything to praise others
[size=1.2]So please remember
[size=1.2]You must learn to praise others
[size=1.2]He leaves you without enemies
[size=1.2]The so-called experience of high emotional intelligence
[size=1.2]It's just you who told lies
[size=1.2]The other party knows it well
[size=1.2]but gladly accept
[size=1.2]The one with low emotional intelligence means you obviously told the truth.
[size=1.2]You have to apologize to the other party
[size=1.2]The greatest ugliness of human nature
[size=1.2]It's because he obviously has selfish motives
[size=1.2]But demanding generosity from others
[size=1.2]Always want others to be saints
[size=1.2]And secretly act like a villain
[size=1.2]Do you think those people you have helped
[size=1.2]At least when you're in trouble
[size=1.2]show compassion
[size=1.2]But often these people
[size=1.2]He's the one who's most likely to fall into trouble.
[size=1.2]truth teller
[size=1.2]Always be careful like a villain
[size=1.2]And those who tell lies
[size=1.2]Always speak righteously like a gentleman
[size=1.2]When you have no money, do good things first
[size=1.2]When you have money, you have to do things well
[size=1.2]Unfortunately, most people are just the opposite
[size=1.2]Don’t treat yourself as a human being when you have no money
[size=1.2]Don’t take things seriously when you have money
[size=1.2]If one day
[size=1.2]You feel like those close to you are just pretending
[size=1.2]don't worry
[size=1.2]do not be afraid
[size=1.2]This shows that you have matured
[size=1.2]no fuss
[size=1.2]You made friends when you were in trouble
[size=1.2]When you are proud, your friends will meet you
[size=1.2]Great joy and great sorrow
[size=1.2]see yourself clearly
[size=1.2]See friends clearly through ups and downs
[size=1.2]Many weak people are also evil people
[size=1.2]But because it is weak
[size=1.2]His evil talents have no destructive power
[size=1.2]But once such a person turns over
[size=1.2]Often they will intensify their mischief.
[size=1.2]Many honest people are also bad people
[size=1.2]But because I have never seen the world
[size=1.2]They live like cowards
[size=1.2]But once they gain momentum
[size=1.2]Immediately became unscrupulous and greedy
[size=1.2]Many bosses tell their employees to do their jobs well.
[size=1.2]We are doing a big thing that is beneficial to society
[size=1.2]Wait until our company makes money
[size=1.2]I will never forget you
[size=1.2]The reality is often like this
[size=1.2]Either the boss keeps doing what he does or he collapses
[size=1.2]Either it will become bigger in the future
[size=1.2]Then bring the people around you who share the same joys and sorrows
[size=1.2]All kicked away
[size=1.2]Many boys tell girls this
[size=1.2]I really like you
[size=1.2]Although I have no money now
[size=1.2]But I will definitely work hard to make money
[size=1.2]Wait until I get rich in the future
[size=1.2]I will definitely compensate you twice as much
[size=1.2]The reality is often like this
[size=1.2]Boys are either simply incapable of doing big things
[size=1.2]Or wait until you get rich later
[size=1.2]He abandoned the wretched wife beside him
[size=1.2]therefore
[size=1.2]Those who like to talk about morality and feelings
[size=1.2]I often use this standard to bless others.
[size=1.2]And then quietly realize their own interests
[size=1.2]Discuss money with people
[size=1.2]People tend to be trained into wolves
[size=1.2]And talking about feelings with people
[size=1.2]It often turns people into white-eyed wolves
[size=1.2]Because the relationship is maintained by money
[size=1.2]If it can be maintained forever
[size=1.2]Feelings often develop in the end
[size=1.2]And the relationship that was maintained by emotion from the beginning
[size=1.2]It is often easy to break up due to interests
[size=1.2]In the end, they just hate each other
[size=1.2]It is always right to praise others
[size=1.2]Especially when you don't want to say anything
[size=1.2]Or when you don’t know something
[size=1.2]Just keep praising the other person.
[size=1.2]This will not cause unnecessary trouble
[size=1.2]Playing dumb is always right
[size=1.2]Especially when you see through everything
[size=1.2]Better to pretend to be stupid
[size=1.2]The more you see, the more you need to pretend
[size=1.2]If you can’t see through it, just wait and see
[size=1.2]Can money make people bad?
[size=1.2]In fact, money does not make people bad
[size=1.2]It doesn't make people better
[size=1.2]He can only expose his true self to others
[size=1.2]Money is like power
[size=1.2]It is the amplifier of human nature
[size=1.2]They will magnify the appearance of the person many times
[size=1.2]Let people live closer to their truest selves
[size=1.2]when people are poor
[size=1.2]No chance to release his arrogance and shamelessness
[size=1.2]Nor can I show my generosity and kindness
[size=1.2]When a person has money
[size=1.2]Vanity, greed, arrogance, selfishness and lust will all be magnified
[size=1.2]corresponding
[size=1.2]Human generosity, kindness, bravery, kindness, filial piety and dedication
[size=1.2]It will also be enlarged
[size=1.2]Money makes noble people nobler
[size=1.2]Despicable people are even more despicable
[size=1.2]Money makes profound people deeper
[size=1.2]Shallow people are even shallower
[size=1.2]The best way to comfort someone is to tell him
[size=1.2]Actually I'm worse than you
[size=1.2]Don’t keep talking about big things
[size=1.2]This will only make the other person feel that they are really miserable
[size=1.2]this is human nature
[size=1.2]i can be a failure
[size=1.2]But I can't admit failure
[size=1.2]What I want to see is that everyone is actually a failure
[size=1.2]Only in this way will you feel at ease
[size=1.2]It turns out there are so many people in the world who are worse off than me
[size=1.2]What else can I be sad about?
[size=1.2]I should be secretly glad
[size=1.2]In short
[size=1.2]Not every loser deserves pity and sympathy
[size=1.2]Not every loser is willing to face the truth
[size=1.2]They would rather deceive themselves
[size=1.2]Live in self-comfort
[size=1.2]happiness of most people
[size=1.2]It’s all because they live a better life than the people around them
[size=1.2]It comes from a sense of superiority
[size=1.2]rather than self
[size=1.2]The result of recognition
[size=1.2]The pain of most people
[size=1.2]It’s not because I’m mediocre and poor that I’m suffering
[size=1.2]It’s about seeing the people around you who are more successful than yourself
[size=1.2]and feel extremely painful
[size=1.2]No matter how rich and healthy a person is
[size=1.2]If all the friends around him are better off than him
[size=1.2]His happiness will not be too high either
[size=1.2]And no matter how mediocre a person is
[size=1.2]If all the friends around him are far inferior to him
[size=1.2]His happiness will not be too low either
[size=1.2]There is a self-protection mechanism for dignity in human nature
[size=1.2]Whenever you come into contact with the outside world
[size=1.2]After those outstanding achievements beyond my expectation
[size=1.2]we will feel panicked and confused
[size=1.2]The brain collects all clues
[size=1.2]To prove that other people's success is a fluke
[size=1.2]If you have the same objective conditions
[size=1.2]will only be better than them
[size=1.2]Just like when I was in school
[size=1.2]We love to discuss
[size=1.2]People who study well are nerds
[size=1.2]Pretty girls often have no brains
[size=1.2]When I grow up
[size=1.2]It turns into a colleague getting promoted
[size=1.2]It's because I know how to flatter the leader
[size=1.2]A classmate started a business successfully
[size=1.2]Because my family gave me huge financial support
[size=1.2]To avoid the consequences of people around you getting better
[size=1.2]We all like to bring down people who get better
[size=1.2]trampled underfoot
[size=1.2]To trample on their halo
[size=1.2]In order to obtain psychological satisfaction
[size=1.2]This feeling is even happier than achieving something
[size=1.2]We always like to think of those outstanding and successful people
[size=1.2]Think about the most despicable places
[size=1.2]Only then can you feel at ease
[size=1.2]It seems like this is the only thing
[size=1.2]Only then can you prove that your vulgarity is not isolated
[size=1.2]And for their own failure
[size=1.2]Find a reason to live at the bottom
[size=1.2]People would rather prove the mediocrity of others
[size=1.2]Nor willing to face my own mediocrity
[size=1.2]This is the pattern of most people
[size=1.2]This is also a disguised admission of one's own incompetence.
[size=1.2]So Wang Xiaobo talks about all human sufferings
[size=1.2]Essentially, it's all anger at one's own incompetence
[size=1.2]The more sensible people
[size=1.2]The more no one feels sorry for you, the more
[size=1.2]People with good tempers are more likely to be bullied
[size=1.2]The more empathetic people are, the more likely they are to be wronged
[size=1.2]On the contrary, they are people who cry, refuse, and fall out.
[size=1.2]Usually the more no one dares to provoke
[size=1.2]The more arrogant and unreasonable you are
[size=1.2]Everyone comes to please you instead
[size=1.2]Boys with scumbag characteristics
[size=1.2]Looks romantic and philanthropic
[size=1.2]But there is often a lack of love in the heart
[size=1.2]Girls with sucking characteristics
[size=1.2]Most of them have been hurt by their original families
[size=1.2]Extremely lacking in love
[size=1.2]So much so that the scumbag throws some bait at will
[size=1.2]You can capture them
[size=1.2]Human eyes are parallel
[size=1.2]But don’t treat people equally
[size=1.2]Human ears grow on both sides
[size=1.2]But I always like to listen to one side of the story
[size=1.2]Everyone individually is rational and intelligent
[size=1.2]But as long as they get together
[size=1.2]will become blind and irrational
[size=1.2]become a rabble
[size=1.2]Produce various herding effects
[size=1.2]Look at me here
[size=1.2]I think in your society
[size=1.2]The so-called correctness is nothing more than being similar to others
[size=1.2]Behind any behavior that puts one over others
[size=1.2]Everyone has an inferiority complex that needs to be hidden.
[size=1.2]Giving in will basically lead to an increase in the odds.
[size=1.2]Don't imagine that you can get any respect or heartache in exchange for it
[size=1.2]People have thousands of faces
[size=1.2]The heart is ever-changing
[size=1.2]Don’t tell everything you know
[size=1.2]Don’t believe everything you hear
[size=1.2]In this cold society
[size=1.2]You never know who's playing who
[size=1.2]What's so scary about ghosts?
[size=1.2]Go and see people's hearts
[size=1.2]Surrounded by actors
[size=1.2]Everyone has an ever-changing face
[size=1.2]Today you share your heart and soul with others
[size=1.2]I will definitely regret it tomorrow and break my heart.
[size=1.2]Most people don’t recognize their own problems
[size=1.2]But he has a preaching mouth
[size=1.2]They obviously have selfish motives
[size=1.2]But demanding generosity from others
[size=1.2]Life is like playing Super Mario
[size=1.2]When you didn’t eat mushrooms to get bigger
[size=1.2]Even a little tortoise can kill you instantly
[size=1.2]Too accommodating to others
[size=1.2]It's a chronic suicide to yourself
[size=1.2]Kindness is free
[size=1.2]But not cheap
[size=1.2]Don’t pay attention to rewards
[size=1.2]It will only be counterproductive
[size=1.2]Don't be unconditionally nice to someone
[size=1.2]I don’t want to love you anymore
[size=1.2]Because it's been a long time
[size=1.2]That person will get used to it
[size=1.2]Then of course
[size=1.2]Enthusiasm that does not receive a response should be stopped in moderation
[size=1.2]Because of this kind of dedication
[size=1.2]Often you are the only one who is moved
[size=1.2]A person who shows off his power
[size=1.2]Often have low self-esteem inside
[size=1.2]watery person
[size=1.2]There is often a lack of love in the heart
[size=1.2]Extremely glamorous person
[size=1.2]The heart is often fragile
[size=1.2]in this society
[size=1.2]truly proud
[size=1.2]It’s not about how many people you met when you were brilliant
[size=1.2]But when you are in trouble
[size=1.2]How many people still know you?
[size=1.2]Sharing happiness with the wrong person
[size=1.2]It becomes a show off
[size=1.2]Sad to share with the wrong person
[size=1.2]It becomes hypocritical
[size=1.2]even a joke
[size=1.2]Don’t let reality slap you in the face
[size=1.2]Only then do you realize how hypocritical society is
[size=1.2]Unless you let so-called friends hurt you, you will be nothing.
[size=1.2]Only then do you know that people’s hearts are fearful
[size=1.2]Never blame others for not helping you
[size=1.2]And never blame others for not caring about you
[size=1.2]live in the world
[size=1.2]We are all independent individuals
[size=1.2]You have to bear the pain and discomfort yourself
[size=1.2]No one can really understand you
[size=1.2]The stone didn't hit his feet
[size=1.2]He will never understand how painful it is
[size=1.2]Everything is done in moderation
[size=1.2]Too much kindness
[size=1.2]I just lack the heart and be too humble.
[size=1.2]becomes weak
[size=1.2]If everything is too generous and tolerant
[size=1.2]Others will not appreciate you
[size=1.2]On the contrary, it will get worse
[size=1.2]Too kind
[size=1.2]Also a kind of stupidity
[size=1.2]happiness for most people
[size=1.2]It’s all because they live a better life than the people around them
[size=1.2]The pain of most people
[size=1.2]It’s all because you see people around you who are more successful than you are.
[size=1.2]People always like to criticize good people
[size=1.2]Discuss their success
[size=1.2]It's all accidental or the result of things going bad.
[size=1.2]It seems like this is the only thing
[size=1.2]Only then can you prove that your vulgarity is not isolated
[size=1.2]and find reasons for their own failure
[size=1.2]No matter how you live
[size=1.2]There will be people making irresponsible remarks about you behind your back.
[size=1.2]Don’t argue and don’t care
[size=1.2]laugh it off
[size=1.2]In fact, it is the best contempt
[size=1.2]many encounters
[size=1.2]We all hit it off
[size=1.2]Goodbye stranger
[size=1.2]You are good to someone
[size=1.2]The other party may not remember
[size=1.2]But you treat someone badly
[size=1.2]The other party may remember it for a lifetime
[size=1.2]Don’t expect to be kind to others
[size=1.2]But don't cause any trouble
[size=1.2]person with hope
[size=1.2]Sunlight can be found everywhere
[size=1.2]ugly person inside
[size=1.2]Darkness is seen everywhere
[size=1.2]most of the time
[size=1.2]what kind of person are you
[size=1.2]This is what the world you see is like
[size=1.2]Being angry is punishing yourself for others' mistakes
[size=1.2]Anguish is torturing yourself with your own mistakes
[size=1.2]Worry is scaring yourself with unknown risks
[size=1.2]When you are in trouble you make friends, when you are proud
[size=1.2]Friends know you
[size=1.2]Great joy and great sorrow, see yourself clearly
[size=1.2]See friends clearly through ups and downs
[size=1.2]this is human nature
[size=1.2]Society cannot bear to take a closer look
[size=1.2]The human heart cannot bear careful scrutiny
[size=1.2]I suddenly understood
[size=1.2]What Lu Xun wrote in Diary of a Madman
[size=1.2]I looked it up in history
[size=1.2]This history has no time
[size=1.2]crooked on every page
[size=1.2]They all have four words written on them: benevolence, justice and morality.
[size=1.2]I can't sleep anyway
[size=1.2]Watched carefully for half the night
[size=1.2]Only then did I see the words through the cracks in the words.
[size=1.2]There are two words written all over the book: "cannibalism"!
[size=1.2]I didn’t understand the meaning of the song when I first read it.
[size=1.2]Read it again and you are already a person in the song
[size=1.2]I couldn't read Lu Xun when I was a kid
[size=1.2]Read Lu Xun again as an adult
[size=1.2]burst into tears
[size=1.2]Follow me I am the way to wealth
[size=1.2]Let you unlock the truth about more money